On feeling small…

On feeling small…

If women are to be regarded equal in value in the world and our power and the medicine we bring, honoured, then I believe that part of what we must move towards is men learning to meet their feelings of inferiority and smallness, if or when they arise. Of course we...
post #metoo musings

post #metoo musings

Women… fact: if you suppress your own sexuality, you are very likely projecting this onto others, including men. If you are not allowing yourself to be comfortable as a sexual being, if you are not at ease with your own initiator and your inner...
On ‘Conscious’ Sexuality & Trauma…

On ‘Conscious’ Sexuality & Trauma…

During my first professional sexuality training, I was explicitly encouraged to have no boundaries. If there was a man I didn’t want to do an intimate exchange with, I was told I should work through my resistance, that my boundaries were due to my...
On Women & Victimhood

On Women & Victimhood

Whenever I or others question anything about women and victimhood, there are often accusations of being misogynist, which – as someone who has devoted a good portion of my life to loving the Feminine and supporting women’s empowerment – is so far...
Happiness is not an inside job

Happiness is not an inside job

I often wish I had never been exposed to ‘spiritual’ literature and philosophies. Especially the maxim ‘happiness is an inside job’. Sure, there is truth in that. But our ‘spirituality’ emanates from the paradigm we are embedded...