Happiness is not an inside job

Happiness is not an inside job

I often wish I had never been exposed to ‘spiritual’ literature and philosophies. Especially the maxim ‘happiness is an inside job’. Sure, there is truth in that. But our ‘spirituality’ emanates from the paradigm we are embedded...
I am my own permission-granter

I am my own permission-granter

When combined with our heart and our awareness we can use our sexuality for its highest purpose: embracing, feeling deeply connected to and riding the very crest of life’s creative expression through us. Allowing our lust for and communion with life. But how to...
The world doesn’t need more power

The world doesn’t need more power

Women who say yes to themselves as sovereign, sexual beings are powerful creatures. And that is a scary thing for us in a world with a paradigm of scarcity and ‘power over’, in which someone having power, generally means it’s both taken away from...
Empathy is my super power

Empathy is my super power

The deeper I go into my menstrual cycle awareness, the more I sense that those last few days before bleeding are such an important and precious time for feeling. Whether it’s emotions that I’ve managed to gloss over or suppress the month before, or whether...
Eros & Earth

Eros & Earth

What if you paused for a moment… and remembered the soft animal of your body as an extension of the earth. What if you took a breath and sensed your capacity for the exquisite: the simple, sensual communing with life. Is there a pleasure in belonging to her? Of...
Why befriend our sexuality?

Why befriend our sexuality?

  Why bother making friends with our sexuality? Why lift the lid on pandoras box when it can make us feel such discomfort or fear? Perhaps we feel like we’d rather keep the lid on: after all it’s only sex. My extensive personal enquiry around...