On Showing Off

On Showing Off

On showing off… What is the difference between showing off, self-expression or art? What is ego-masturbation and what is pure, creative expression of spirit? Is it either or? And who gets to decide? To celebrate ourselves and allow our inner worlds to become...
On shaming men’s desire

On shaming men’s desire

I know that sexual shaming is rampant universally, but through my work I often come into contact with how women – feeling threatened by male desire – so often shame men, sometimes overtly, but often unconsciously. I know many of us have been victims to...
On suffering

On suffering

There is nothing quite like suffering as a catalyst for climbing the ladder of perspective. Up and up, each rung a slightly more whole picture, a little more Truth. Each step, you realise you feel a little freer. Every time you pause and take a breath and realise you...
Cyclical Living (from a recovering intensity junky)

Cyclical Living (from a recovering intensity junky)

In this era of abundance of and easy access to intense experiences, there seems to be the tendency to try and cram in as much as possible. Entertainment, festivals, self-development workshops, plant medicine rituals, erotic encounters…we are intensity junkies, our...
On Female Sexual Dysfunction

On Female Sexual Dysfunction

“The medical establishment tells us that about 50 percent of women have so-called FSD (female sexual dysfunction). I think the “dysfunction” happens when our body says “NO” to regular old “friction” sex because we long for the...